Frequently Asked Questions

How do I start therapy?

You decide what you want help with, first.

How do I decide what I want help with in therapy?

Ask yourself: “What causes me the most stress?” Start there :)

After you decide what you want help with, decide how you will pay. Health insurance or paying out of pocket are the most common.

What are all these letters? I just want a therapist.

In CA, look for ASW, AMFT, APCC for newer (and often times less expensive) therapists. Look for LSW, LMFT or LPCC for licensed folks with more experience (but often times more expensive).

I found a therapist I might like, now what?

Find a few you like and reach out. You can say something like, “Hi, I've never been to therapy before and I'm looking for someone to help me with anxiety and feeling overwhelmed. Are you accepting new clients, and do you take my insurance?”

How do I schedule an appointment with a therapist?

This will look different for every therapist. You can do this by calling me, emailing me or scheduling a free 15 minute consultation with me before starting therapy together.

Don’t forget to communicate with your therapist.

When you meet with them, tell them what you are looking for. Do you need someone to listen? Practical strategies? Or maybe you don’t know yet, a therapist can help with that.

What if I don’t like my therapist?

Lastly, it is okay to “shop” for the right therapist. It is important for you to feel comfortable with your therapist and for you to feel as if they can understand, empathize and relate to you. Keep looking if this isn’t immediately the case. Don’t give up! (unless you want to)

Starting therapy can be intimidating and you may not know what to do, that’s okay! I am here to help! Don’t hesitate to reach out to me through the contact page, email me or text me!

What is the difference between therapy and advice?

What Therapy Is

  • A safe, supportive, and confidential space

  • A collaborative process between you and your therapist

  • Focused on healing, growth, and self-discovery

  • A place to build coping skills and align with your values

What Therapy Is Not

  • A quick fix or instant solution

  • Advice-giving or telling you what to do

  • A friendship (though it may feel supportive and warm)

  • Judgmental or one-size-fits-all

What is DBT?

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions, stuck in painful patterns, or unsure how to navigate relationships effectively? Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) teaches practical skills for managing emotions, tolerating distress, communicating effectively, and staying present in the moment. Together, we'll work to help you respond to life's challenges with greater confidence, balance, and self-understanding.

What is IFS?

Sometimes it can feel like different parts of you want different things—one part wants connection, another wants to pull away; one part wants change, another feels scared. Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps us understand these inner experiences with curiosity rather than judgment. When we build a compassionate relationship with the different parts of yourself, we can reduce internal conflict, heal old wounds, and help you feel more grounded, connected, and whole.

What does it mean to be trauma-informed?

Trauma-informed therapy recognizes that our minds and bodies adapt to survive difficult experiences. Many behaviors, emotions, and coping strategies that feel frustrating today may have once served an important purpose. Together, we'll approach your experiences with compassion, helping you make sense of your patterns, build a sense of safety, and create change without shame or self-blame.

What is complex-PTSD?

If you've experienced chronic trauma, neglect, abuse, or unstable relationships, you may find yourself struggling with intense emotions, difficulty trusting others, self-criticism, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or feeling disconnected from yourself. These are common experiences associated with Complex PTSD (C-PTSD). Together, we'll work to understand how these patterns developed, honor the ways they helped you survive, and build new ways of relating to yourself and others.

How are PTSD and C-PTSD different?

While both PTSD and Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) can develop after traumatic experiences, they often differ in the type of trauma involved and how that trauma affects a person's life.

PTSD is commonly associated with a single traumatic event or a series of discrete events, such as an accident, assault, natural disaster, or military combat. Symptoms may include intrusive memories, nightmares, avoidance, heightened anxiety, and feeling constantly on guard.

Complex PTSD typically develops after prolonged or repeated trauma, especially in situations where a person felt trapped or unable to escape, such as childhood abuse or neglect, domestic violence, trafficking, or ongoing emotional abuse. In addition to many of the symptoms seen in PTSD, people with C-PTSD may struggle with self-worth, emotional regulation, trust, relationships, and a stable sense of identity.

Put simply, PTSD is often about the impact of trauma itself, while C-PTSD also reflects the impact trauma has had on a person's relationship with themselves and others.

⚠️ Disclaimer

The content on this website is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional mental health treatment, diagnosis, or therapy. Engaging with this content does not create a therapist-client relationship. If you are in need of mental health support, please reach out to a licensed professional in your area.

This space is meant to inspire reflection—not to replace the healing that happens in a safe, therapeutic relationship.